OK, thanx to everyone who contributed to my query. Below is the system I'm buying today or tomorrow at the latest. All the components are available at my local microcenter.
I've dropped the new monitors as I've got three right now that will work.
Also gone is the BFG power supply. I found one that'll do just fine for less cash. I did check thoroughly on my power requirements for this set up, its 955W peak.
Found a new motherboard with great specs and less cost.
Decided against an SSD right now as I'm not running any HDD intensive games, I can always add that later.
Went with a no frills case as I'm not planning on showing off my build skillz.
The tray kit is just for fun.
I'm not into overclocking so I traded to the reference 470 graphics cards.
Included triple channel memory.
To the ATI folks, I did look seriously at the eyefinity cards, hard. I went with the Nvidia because it'll give me 4 dvi connectors and no display port adapters are needed. Also, the card I really wanted was $700. That's a lot of lettuce for a single point of failure. In any case it was a close run thing. Time will tell if I went the right way or not.
Intel Corporation Core i7-930 Processor Boxed
Microsoft Windows 7 Home Premium (PC)
EVGA X58 SLI LE LGA 1366 X58 ATX Motherboard
IOGear Long Range Media Center Desktop
Barracuda 500GB 7,200RPM Hard Drive
OCZ Technology 6GB DDR3-1600 (PC3-12800) Obsidian Triple Channel Memory Kit (Three 2GB Memory Modules)
22x DVD±RW Burner OEM
XION AXP Mid Tower ATX Case
Thermaltake USA Inc Xray 5.25" Drive Bay Kit
EVGA GeForce GTX 470 1280MB PCIe x16 2 EACH
XION Power Real 1100W ATX Power Supply
Total: $1,952.39
All this will be driving a 26" center monitor and two 21" side monitors, TrackIr, X-52 HOTAS and CH rudder pedals. I've got a couple sets of surround speakers with sub-woofers so at some point I'll be hooking up the integrated 7.1 sound system. Prolly while the wife and kids are away.