What do you mean by:
cant get anything beyond basic X36 use 1 4 way hat fire buttons...no other directx even though stick shows as configured in xp
Are you saying that the buttons don't work in the Game Controllers control panel? They should. Windows XP does have drivers for the X36. They work perfectly on my system.
Fat lot of good that does me, without the SGE. Because Aces High has never recognized correctly more than the X36's first 8 DirectX buttons in the joystick setup plus the first hat switch. Even under Win9x, they've never worked if you don't install SGE.
In this case, it's not a problem with XP not recognizing the buttons, because it does, it's a problem with AH - well, not completely with AH.
Because it would be a real pain to configure anyway, even if AH did recognize all the DirectX buttons, because of the way both mode switches work: they're actually 3 DirectX buttons each. So one button is always stuck on (9 to 11 for the mode switch, and 12 to 14 for the auxiliary one). The result is that you can't correctly map buttons in AH, since button 9 (or 10 or 11) is always on because of the mode switch, so when you try to map a button, it's always button 9 that is selected.
You have to face the fact: without the software to control the X36, don't bother trying to use the X36 under Windows XP.
If you want to fly in AH, you have no choice, you have to revert to the Win9x family, at least for the time being.
Much to my personal frustration, I had to reformat everything and install a dual boot Win98/WinXP system. (I really hate Win9x.)