Here's my update to my problem.
Have 3 friends who have this same stick ( one has the forcefeedback )
2 of them are ok 1 has the same problem as me.
Friend 1 Windows 98 spiking
The Fix Calibrated the joystick in AcesHigh saved settings. Then (still in AcesHigh ) selected the Rudder from the Axis box and increased the Dead Band.
The joystick working.
Pokie Windows 2000me spiking
The Fix Well I tried everything, even on Friend 1 computer.
Ended up taking the joystick back for replacement.
Still needed to calibrate the new one in AcesHigh and set the Dead Band for the Rudder from the Axis box.
The Dead Band is set about 1/2 ways up.
Joystick now working.
Only problem now is "I still can hit the side of a barn"
Pokie