I got jumped in the Snapshot last night by a Pony that I - and everyone else apparently

- did not see. Thank god I was running film... Anyway, the Pony inflicted some rather serious damage: engine, left landing gear and left flap. So basically I had to ditch. I spotted a field, and attempted a landing. Unfortunately, I had not checked what systems were damaged, being distracted from that task by trying not to compress the 109G, and still make it to the field. I deployed flaps and gear, and slipped it down. In my haste, I went for the grass - hoping to roll onto a hard surface. But that was not to be. I snapped off the remaining gear and skidded just shy of the runway. So, if I deployed only 1 flap (the other being shot off), why didn't my plane go wildly out of control? Or react somehow negatively to the asymmetric lift?
And could I add a squeak about considering a forced landing within the confines of an airfield a ditch? Doesn't make too much sense to me