For Dads with Daughters

[MiloMorai]

Being a Hick and all that, I simply told her that if he won't buck Hay then she should start looking elsewhere.

Agh yes bucking in the hay, fond memories.

[MORAY37]

I have 6 daughters... I am covered head to toe in tattoo's, my face is tattooed, . I'm 6 ft 220. I have done prison time, I have been told many, many times I am a very intimidating guy.

I have spoken with the kids that want to date my girls along the lines of this...." I understand why you would want to date my Daughter, I don't understand why she wants to date you, I want you to know I would easily die for her, how much easier would it be for me to kill for her, Harm her in any way..."

when I have done this I look the kid dead in the eye, they get the point very quickly.

Pretty hilarious to see the irony in this post, when relating to a prior topic in which you spoke on someone's "wussification".

Do what you will...threaten, cajole, lock in the basement, they're going to have sex sooner or later anyway. All you can do is teach them right, and give them the tools to make decisions.

Maybe you would rather your dear little girl just acts out against daddy's tyranny, instead of making a mature decision as a woman?

The boys are all lining up, and the only person that can stop your daughter from having sex is your daughter.

[Getback]

Heard a quote from Sylvestor Stalone while talking abut his new movie "The Expendibles". "When you are kissing my daughter you are kissing me!" 

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Pretty hilarious to see the irony in this post, when relating to a prior topic in which you spoke on someone's "wussification".

Do what you will...threaten, cajole, lock in the basement, they're going to have sex sooner or later anyway. All you can do is teach them right, and give them the tools to make decisions.

Maybe you would rather your dear little girl just acts out against daddy's tyranny, instead of making a mature decision as a woman?

The boys are all lining up, and the only person that can stop your daughter from having sex is your daughter.

lol  no irony at all, my girls I trust, it's guys I don't trust, they can do as they wish once they reach adult hood same as I do, same as any consenting adult, they will know all about guys and the way they think, and when they are adults, grown woman,they can make there own decisions. as a woman, they will not be pressured, manipulated by some stiff looking for a good time. I guarantee you that.


you are obviously very young or just plain ignorant.

[bmwgs]

Talking about cultural differences...

When I was young, I found this particular part of American culture very strange. There were all those American  comedy series making fun out of this phenomenon that doesn't exist here in Germany. All that shotgun dad references, "touch my daughter and you are dead stuff", rules like those above - most jokes didn't really work because the background on which they are playing was totally alien to a German teenager. Similar with all that "it's the right thing to wait" (you know what I mean ) stuff in comedy series like The Cosby Show.
A cultural gap of several thousand miles indeed.

Lusche, the differences are unimaginable unless you have lived it.  In the early 70's I lived in Germany from age 13 to 17.  My father worked for the Govt. and I attended the American School, but we lived in a small town named Nordheim, near Worms.  All my peer interaction out of school was with German teenagers.  At first it was a cultural shock, but it was a great time in my life.  When I returned to the United States, I could not believe the differences.  I have always been glad I spent most of my teenage years in Germany.

Fred

[sky25]

I remember always being respectful to the fathers and mothers of girls that I dated. I would tell them what they wanted to hear. Talk about the things that dad liked. Be sure and get on the mothers good side. ( In some cases, I would check out the mother thinking Wow, she is hot.) What they didn't realize is that I had other intentions with their daughters as all young men do..

As soon as the parents were not around, I become a normal teenager and was all over their daughter doing the things that I know her parents wouldn't approve of.. After the date, I would drop her off at her home. Her Mom and Dad would ask about how the movie was. We would say it was great. I don't recall watching the movies since we spent the entire time in the back seat of my Mustang.

Flash forward to the future, and now I have three lovely daughters. I am trying to keep them away from guys like I was at that age. Impossible. All you can do is teach them to be responsible, and to use protection. Dads, you can threaten boys who come to date your daughter all you want. As soon as they leave, I can assure you that they are sooner or later going to get down and dirty, and there is nothing you can do about it.. Also, the more you try to stop your daughter from dating a certain guy, the more she will want to.. The best you can do is watch out for your daughters and have on open channel of communication with them..