Okay, this is driving me crazy. Everywhere I seem to go, I am completely overwhelmed. 4-5 Glowing ones come flying in at me in certain areas, 4 deathclaws at once, and none of my weapons are up to the task. Does it get any more manageable at some point?
Yeah, don't travel north out of the starter town. work your way south to Primm first, do the save the deputy quest and speak with him and then go to Novac.
Do the quests in Novac and go to the RepConn Test Site and do that quest to help the ghouls (but don't get 2 things needed to launch the rocket yet). When you're sent off to get the two parts needed to launch the rockets, go back to Primm and talk to the old guy in the Mojave Express office (Do not go to the scrap yard first, otherwise you bug the robot companion quest) and ask him about the robot (ED-E) to open up a side quest. If you're repair isn't high enough to repair him, you should have all the necessary parts if after going through RepConn (you should also have enough resources to reprogram the Primm Slim to be the new sheriff). If you have ED-E up and running, now it's time to go to the scrap yard as now the ED-E quest says to go to the scrap yard. Go to the scrap yard and you'll get a message from ED-E and it will play a voice recording giving some additional clues and pick up the rocket fuel and get the location of the 2nd part for the rockets. Finish off the quest for the ghouls (if you sabotage the launch it gives positive karma points for the people of Nomac), go to Helios One for the next part of ED-E's quest and after you've done that go to Nipton and continue that stage of the main story quest. Afterwards you should be strong enough to be able to explore around without dying all the time. Unlike Fallout 3, a poorly rolled character will make this game a lot tougher than it would be normally and unlike Fallout 3, specializing in just one thing (like all guns, nothing else) isn't going make things easier. Best to spread things around, as stats pay more of an important part in New Vegas than in Fallout 3.
Remember, do not go to the Gibson Scrapyard prior to getting the ED-E quest and fixing it. If you do you'll never be able to complete the ED-E companion quest which means you'll never be able to upgrade its laser or armor nor the treasure it's supposed to know the location of. Only go to the scrap yard after you've repaired ED-E and you get the prompt to go to the scrap yard.
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