Did you know you can tune to yourself and hear how you sound? Type your own name in to vox 5 and talk.
I say this because while you may not have "that high" of a voice in person you may on vox.
So typing more and listening or talking less will go a long way with getting respect.
I have nothing against any of you but I don't like squelching you. (it is unbearable sometimes when young kids talk)