shiv, I think he is saying playing on only one side is keeping you from experencing the full game, making friends on all sides,~fact is its all one side "Aces High" we are here to enjoy the game its not football, or baseball or the military(lol) its silly to think so narrow mindidly, you must stay on one side. Hell I very much enjoy fighting people that were just friendlies, and knowing them makes it that much better, if there always red you wont get to "know" them. ether way it is up to the individual on how he wants to play.