Kids

[Westy]

"i'll be sure to tell her that when i talk to her tonight. i'm sure she'll be happy to hear that."

Does she hit her kids?

[CAP1]

"i'll be sure to tell her that when i talk to her tonight. i'm sure she'll be happy to hear that."

Does she hit her kids?

you've not followed this whole thread, have ya?

[CAP1]

Translation:  I can't believe you agree with me.  Hats off to you sir for having the same opinion as I do. 

My kids believe the Easter Bunny is real.  Well, the little one at list.  They also look for a dollar from the tooth fairy and lets not forget the fat guy coming down the chimney we don't even have.  My point is, they will believe anything if you tell them long enough that it is true.  If your mom told you she hit you out of love, that is what you will believe.   Did you also believe on the above to be true?

Don;t hate your parents.  They probably did not know any better or were listening to other clueless people.  But yes, she did hit you out of anger for doing what ever it is you did.

him agreeing with me doesn't matter........his realization of the truth on the other hand at the young age of 18........that's pretty impressive.

[Westy]

 Only the parts dealing with hitting kids. I could care less if someone's
dad was Jesus Christ and he turned food stamps into steaks. If he hits
his kids in any way, shape or form then he'd be a bully and good deeds
in society mean squat and are completely irrelevant to the discussion
about hitting your kids

[Westy]

Here. This ought to keep some of you all warm and fuzzy for the weekend.

A veritable "love" page..

http://www.thehowdydoodyuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=beat

[CAP1]

Only the parts dealing with hitting kids. I could care less if someone's
dad was Jesus Christ and he turned food stamps into steaks. If he hits
his kids in any way, shape or form then he'd be a bully and good deeds
in society mean squat and are completely irrelevant to the discussion
about hitting your kids

ok......the "does she hit her kids" question you asked was regarding the person i was referencing....i was referencing my own mother. she doesn't hit either one of us now. considering i'm 49, and my brother is 47.
 we were both spanked when we deserved it.

 i am thankful for my mother, and my grandparents. if i could go back to being young.........i wouldn't want them to be any different than they were. considering i was a know-it-all when i was a teen.......it's amazing how much i didn't know. they did a good job on us.

 oh yea....and the person i was referencing doing all of those things.....that was me.  

[CAP1]

Here. This ought to keep some of you all warm and fuzzy for the weekend.

A veritable "love" page..

http://www.thehowdydoodyuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=beat


(Image removed from quote.)

so you're fishing now, right? i know you're smart enough to know the difference between beating, and a spanking.

[Westy]

Congrats. Honestly.

It's a reach to try and say your outcome is typical. My experience in
life  and witnessing people where ever I've lived is that it isn't.  

[Westy]

"difference between beating, and a spanking. "

If one were to read this topic and the other one then the talk
of spanking is the least of the issues. Still. Red welts from an
adult hand on a childs body IS a beating. Spanking is a poor
attempt at calling it something less vile.

[moot]

non-aggressive guys/parents"
Bzzt. Wrong!!  Bad spin.  It's "non-violent"
I met your troll and raised you one.

Come again?

[CAP1]

Congrats. Honestly.

It's a reach to try and say your outcome is typical. My experience in
life  and witnessing people where ever I've lived is that it isn't.  

i'm not saying my outcome was/is typical.

 what i AM saying.....is what i've been saying all along. do what is right/necessary for the kid. for my brother and i........the ocasional spanking was the correct solution. it's pretty apparent, as mom has two middle aged kids that look up to her just as they did when they were young. there is nothing that either one of us wouldn't do for mom.

 my brother has his family, and they all love him. i have my "CAP" family. we both still have mom.

[CAP1]

"difference between beating, and a spanking. "

If one were to read this topic and the other one then the talk
of spanking is the least of the issues. Still. Red welts from an
adult hand on a childs body IS a beating. Spanking is a poor
attempt at calling it something less vile.

mom used the ping pong paddles......till i modified them, and one broke. scared the poop outta her...she thought she hit me too hard. never got spanked again. told her about my modification recently..........she laughed right along with my brother and i. 

[Westy]

moot - was reference to 'Thinking up a new and improved troll
will reply later"


"mom used the ping pong paddles"

Well that clarifies things a bit That you think it's fine and shows 'love
and  protection' to get hit with a paddle makes me shake my head and
it confirms I'm wasting my time discussing this. As I commented to
dedalos earlier this is a no-win debate with some and so feel free
have the last word.

(btw the site above and the pic was for all who are on that side of
the topic. not you specifically. although I'd bet you agree with most
of what is written there. hasta la pizza!)

[CAP1]

moot - was reference to 'Thinking up a new and improved troll
will reply later"


"mom used the ping pong paddles"

Well that clarifies things a bit That you think it's fine and shows 'love
and  protection' to get hit with a paddle makes me shake my head and
it confirms I'm wasting my time discussing this. As I commented to
dedalos earlier this is a no-win debate with some and so feel free
have the last word.

(btw the site above and the pic was for all who are on that side of
the topic. not you specifically. although I'd bet you agree with most
of what is written there. hasta la pizza!)

you do realize that the only difference between usingf her hand, and using the ping pong paddle, was that the paddle stung more, with a ligher hit, right?

[dedalos]

him agreeing with me doesn't matter........his realization of the truth on the other hand at the young age of 18........that's pretty impressive.

  Nah, it is the realization of what YOU think it is the truth.  Hats off for the Easter bunny also?