As I did with you Vampire, I try to hilight your mistakes and talk you thru a fight against me while we are fighting. I hold nothing back, I honestly try to help you shoot me down. Even when i'm fighting squadies I will say things like "don't do that" or "there ya go now pull for the shot"etc etc.
The better you get and the harder it is to beat you the more rewarding the victory!
I hold nothing back my friend!!! 
JUGgler
this i have found to be true of many of the good pile-its.
shuffler, soulss, have both helped me this way, ren in the ta, bigrat.......any of these guys will do all they can to help you out, and if asked, i try to help guys too. my problem is that half the time, i don't really know what i did to win a fight, and if i do, i don't know how to explain it.