War is not supposed to be fun, a game is. Hence to try say one is the other, is an insult to both.
HiTech
War has so many connotations: "Example: 4. any conflict or contest: a war of wits ; the war against crime", it can also be construed as a struggle of will. Base taking allows for such struggle, air superiority also allows for struggle. All with tidal change.
Kinetic military simulator? According to some websites, kinetic military operations is the application of force for offense and defense operations. The simulation of such, is for training to be ready for war, which is not fun.
Simulations are the closest watered down thing possible to conflict flying/Ground/sea support of WWII short of being transported back in time. Flying troops to a base is not always 'fun', knowing that you most likely will get shot down. Neither is resupplying a base. It's more 'work' / labor ends to justify the means. So is attempting to advance the front via fighter / bomber / troops when after awhile the 'work' aspect creeps in. People log off to give themselves a break. If it were always fun, they'd be logged in 24/7
Some squads I've seen (not mine), require minimum time of experience on a plane and demonstrations of skill to get airborne and remain qualified to stay airbone with the squad (I know this is true of at least one squad in WB and more than one in Il2). Perhaps it also exists in AH. That is work.
And for the community out there used to shoot em ups, the steep learning curve to fly is not necessarily fun. It's more learning, practice, frustration, all to get better.
If we didn't want to be online to mimick a war, we would not participate in FSO or Axis Allied, or Snapshot events where they attempt to recreate history, track points of which side wins (military struggle). It's not 100% war, but again its also not 0% war.
There would be no point, and according to your definition a grave insult to recreate historical events for gaming purposes all to make a profit (yours) . FSOs, Weekend Avas, and Ava arena such as this example: http://bbs.hitechcreations.com/smf/index.php/topic,310383.0.html