These days young people call it a day off, but seem to not realize what it really is. Meanwhile hundreds of American families go abroad, to Europe, some to the south Pacific, to go to a cemetery, to visit a person that their children never knew, never will............. Over 73,000 American soldiers are buried in Europe. In places like Belgium, Norway, Luxembourg, France and England. 30 years ago I went to Europe with my family.... I was young, I didn't fully understand. The funny part about that is my family members died in the Pacific, but we go to Belgium, to the Ardennes:

We go there because of my Uncle John Courtney's only friend got stuck out there, died out there and had no family. We go there and put a wreath on his grave.... Nobody else will. Silly? I guess it depends how you understand this holiday we have coming up.
What does Memorial Day mean to you?
These days, out of all the souls I could reflect on, and remember, I remember Staff Sgt. Ryan Means, US Army, Green Berets.
Far after any type of career working as a civi for the USN, I started my current job... Where I met Ryan Means. He was a sales guy, had a 6 figure salary, handsome, had it all. Then, 9/11 happened. He volunteered for the Army, took the SF test and passed with flying colors, at the age of 31. (1 year younger than the cut off) He became a Green Beret. He had served in Iraq for about 8 months before he got sick. They sent him to Hamburg.
He had cancer. He came home. He died in New York City. He passed Tuesday, July 7th, year of our Lord 2009, holding his newborn baby with his wife by his side.
This is what Memorial Day means to me. What does Memorial Day mean to you?
My Uncle....

Staff Sgt. Ryan Means....

He is Buried at Arlington:
http://www.arlingtoncemetery.net/rpmeans.htmThis is a weekend I am going to shed a few tears. I don't want to be the only one. Let me know I'm not alone.... What does Memorial Day mean to you?
What does Memorial Day mean to you?
(I'm traveling through Monday)
