And no - no guns popped cause we bailed out with our troops! 
Bailed out with your troops?

Your troops were running, so you bailed out of your C47/M3/whatever? Did you spawn into another vehicle/plane/whatever?
Just like with ords, if you let them go and then bail or die, you need to give them time to do their job before you re-up.
As soon as you re-up, if the bombs/torps/troops are still on the move, they vanish.
This was put into effect quite a while ago to twart the bomb-n-bail, torp-n-bail, troop-n-bail crowds that would up 20 PT boats in 30 seconds to have 80 torps headed for a CV.