I think it's important to note that the OP's idea did not involve 'forcing' everyone to do a certain thing. Nobody would be forcing pilots to use a repair hangar or rearm pad - the OP was just asking for the opportunity to have it in game, available for use if pilots chose to.
Just the same as your example- we have the option to wait 10-15 minutes to get a new plane after we get shot down, if we choose to. But nobody is forced to use that option if they don't want to.
Still, I don't think the repair hangar is going to happen. But it is interesting how the idea keeps coming up, and how people divide into two camps about it, aint it?