The game would be a better place if people would just shut up and play. Who cares if another player runs, picks, HOs or hoards. Don't like it? Go somewhere else on the map more to your liking or, if you can't take it log off. Ego bruised getting shot down? Grab another plane and try again.
I really hate 200 "banter" and I hate PM's even more. I come to relax and play a game, not be insulted by some twit sitting safely miles away behind a keyboard. Funny thing is those outspoken twits will never go to the DA to prove how incredibly awesome they are in a cartoon airplane.
I don't know the circumstances of your interaction but if someone starts poking me with a stick nothing's out of bounds. Simple enough. At the same time I'll never be the one to initiate it.