I know that not everyone would welcome engine management but what if it was selectable like combat trim?
Combat trim takes some of the fiddly work out of flying but, it's a trade off, max performance versus ease of flight. Why not the same option for engines with a similar trade off? Leave it all on auto and you'll have easy flying and reliability but not max performance. Switch it to manual and you'll have immersion and a performance edge but you're forced to manage it or you'll lose the engine. Just to keep people honest you'd have to select it BEFORE the sortie.