There is commonality in all the folks who are "good" and have been around a while. It is that the "desperate kill all" mentality has left them, they prefer quality. They still want to win and will do most things to achieve it, but there are many things they will shy away from. They have learned a higher standard and try to maintain and present this standard.
Everyone starts HOing, vulching, ganging, picking and basically tarding the hell out of everything. Then you get bored and move to a new phase of AH gameplay and it usually involves GVs as well as having progressed to "cherrypicking" at the edge of someones base, even now though you have learned a higher standard in that you probably shun vulching. The next progression usually comes with choosing crappier rides cause once again you've become bored. Now this stage is frustrating cause although you are pwning noobs in your p40 you are still getting owned by better players, you still cherry pick and are somewhat ok with HOing unless it happens to you and you are firmly against vulching still. <-- This is where most players reside IMHO at the moment in AH. You are good, but not great and you are still concerned with being shot down by someone notable, "it grates on you". The next progression probably involves DA time and seeking out those better than you cause NOW you feel as though you have a chance and "you actually do" have a chance now, you may win 2-3 out of 10 against the best but they still edge you out. This level of progression usually involves no HOing because you are becoming more technical in your approach to fighting, probably settled into a ride you prefer although you are quite competant in any and you are seeing how "cheap" the HO really is, sometimes though you will up a beast and HO everything in revenge! There is a level of progression that some get to that kind of encompasses all of the above it is the level where you can take or leave most thing in AH but you honestly try to leave out the crap always, sometimes you will be pushed into the sewer but it doesn't phase you cause you already have spent your time wading thru it!
With all that said, If you are beyond level2 and you still have excuses to validate HOing then it is merely cause you have not made it thru AH puberty and are still wet behind the ears!
JUGgler