I ultimately do not care if my country (Rook) is getting rolled or not. I will do what I can where I can to help my squad and country, but I always look at it 3 ways:
First: if we are getting pushed back due to the double teaming and we're 3-4-5 bases behind the front, I look at the new terrain to have gv battles on or to have dog-fights over. Honestly, who likes to do have gv battles in the exact same terrain time and time again? I certainly don't. Most maps fluctuate in tree and hedge density over the entire map and losing (or gaining) X number of bases is the key to having the new terrain to battle over.
Second: In a 3 country system, the pendulum is going to swing to and fro, it always does. That is the nature of the beast and it is something that no matter how hard people try and complain about they forget that they just need to play the game and let things go because it is out of their control. This isn't the Ost Front where things are X vs Y and clear cut black and white. Know what you can change and what you can not, and things are much easier in AH (and in life, too).
Third: This is a game for enjoyment, I cant seem to get too wrapped up in something that I simply can't put on my resume' and for the life of me wonder how some of the players in AH function in day to day like if they carry themselves in the real world as they do in AH. I play the game, have some fun, take full advantage of the multitude of things that are available to do, and just do it. I try and remind many of my squad mates and countrymen of the same thing.
Carry on.

BudGray, CO
Eagle Squadron
Duxford Wing RAF