Thanks Tigger. I agree with what you say and understand wholeheartedly, and I also understand the reasons for not going into the whole he said/she said thing. You are right, that would NEVER work out well, I do not need confront my accuser(s). I have done what you suggested and am waiting for a reply eventually. On another note, until you told me HTC does not wish discussion on these matters here, I was not aware of that fact. I am not what you would consider a regular on these boards. In 12 years, I may have posted 5 times.
FLS, I think you missed my point, I don't feel persecuted or similar ( i feel slighted) you might say, as I was never informed of the rule I broke or that a punishment had been metted out. Now that Tigger has clearly explained the process for finding out, (get muted, then email and ask why) I have followed those directions. If i offended someone and i am doing it repeatedly, then all I would want is to know WHAT I did wrong, punished or not, "just let me know" so i can stop offending or leave if i feel I need to and play Disney on-line as tigger suggests. I admit, I have not read all of the TOS which would probably help give me have a clearer understanding regarding all of this, I will be endeavoring to correct that omission on my part in the future, so as i do not breach areas which the TOS wishes us to follow. As for repeatedly doing something that offends others, i wasn't aware i was, other than the normal every day chiding between others on 200 about who killed who, cheap kills, etc., and that sort of stuff, and on occasion allowing myself to get aggravated by losing a perk plane, or some other thing to an extent I lost my temper. (I do not think anyone losses their temper on "prupose"). Those who know me in the game, know that when i have let this game, make a 51 year old man, lose his temper THAT much, I log off immediately any more. I realize i had just became too immature to continue to play if i let a game upset me THAT much. (And yes, i am embarrased enough to know I have the ability to get THAT upset about a game, you need not point out that flaw in my temperment). There are times i have found many people lose their temper, and heard or read things which might offend, but I am one who is not offended by that. I can count the fingers of one hand the amount of times over 12 years that I have ever called someone out on that fact by reporting them in any way.
Again, thanks for all the input, i have sent the email request, and await an answer. I have learned a valuable lesson on the need to abide by "the rules". I am anxious to learn specifically which rule I broke to get to where I am now, so that I can correct the issue immediately.