TnDep

[TnDep]

Actually I think there is. To some of us it is inconceivable that this could occur, but it does happen. This should be a warning to all players. It COULD happen to you. Be aware how much time you spend....not flying, but AWAY from your family. Family time is far more important than a game, any game, even one as great as this one.

Good luck TnDep, I hope everything works out ok for ya <S>

This is why I posted my feelings on the matter.  I hope someone can read my post and open their eyes before it's too late.  When your home alone, it really hits home and how much you love your family that you take for granted when their here.  Thanks Fugitive

[TnDep]

Is this behavior within her character? Postpartum depression can cause women to make strange decisions.

I was thinking about this thread on the way to work, makes me appreciate the grumpy wife and dirty kids diapers a little more.

Del,

Theirs more to this story then I put down.  She says it's not postpartum depression that she shut down long ago and that instead of arguing she just didn't say anything.  She said were just not combatibility never have been, she smokes I don't can't stand them, she hates sex never had orgasms, never initiated sex in 10 years, she reads books I don't, I like watching sports every now in then she don't even know the rules to the games, this list can go on but I still love her, shes the mother of my kids and besides that I'm a christian and I don't believe in the divorce if it's workable and it is.  I love my family more then anything, and that will never change.  I got alot of emotions going on right now, but definently a grumpy wife would be better then what I have right now  and as far as diapers go it don't bother me I've always changed them on both of my kids. 

I'm very open to all of you because I hope my situation can save another marriage or help someone else here not have to go through this.  I may write a book, writing soothes me for some reason. 

[TnDep]

Well put.

Some just cant handle the truth. I may be an ass, but I am real with it. Ill say what most think, but wont say.
I like Dep, He is a great guy. Nothing against him. And he isn't the only one to allow this kind of thing happen. And will not be the last, unfortunately.

I stand with my OP. That is just how I feel people. Deal with it.

I don't see anything wrong with what you said BP, we've known each other for awhile.  The game played a small part in this and really just sped this process up, it was inevitable.  But the problem is the game played a part no matter how small it is I neglected my family not totally but enough that this game played a part.  I still fed my family every night helped my daughter with her homework, started her bath water got her night nights on, and layed with her in bed.  But instead of talking to my wife and asking her how her day went ect. I was playing.  Of course I'm mentioning all my faults and few of hers, but I'm not one to 100% blame the other person I had my downfalls too.

[TnDep]

Thanks to all of you, just chatting about this helps get my feeling out and it helps.  And I read every comment I just don't have the time to respond to each one but all of you are good friends and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. 

Skuzzy needs to sticky this and put divorce warning on it, alot of good information in here.  God Bless fellas I got to get in the shower for work I'll check the boards tonight 

[Slate]

   I had the feeling it wasn't the game that caused the rift in your relationship but did not want to assume what I don't know. Thanks for being open and giving us some lessons we can learn.
   I'm the Godfather of a 4 year old boy of my Niece that is going through the mess of divorce. It breaks my heart to see her two kids try to figure out thier new life.
   Sometimes the wounds we suffer in life come to the surface after we have buried them for so many years and hopefully a dialog can be started so we can deal with them.

   Best of luck to You and your Family.      Slate 
   

[Butcher]

I'm probably headed down the same road with my ol lady, its only a matter of time, but I am not going to try to resolve it for now. Dep man I wish you the best, you can always give me a ring if you need, I'd much rather talk about websites or booze rather then women or life problems, best person to listen to your problems is a bartender - far cheaper and they listen long as you pay em.

[mthrockmor]

I'm probably headed down the same road with my ol lady, its only a matter of time, but I am not going to try to resolve it for now. Dep man I wish you the best, you can always give me a ring if you need, I'd much rather talk about websites or booze rather then women or life problems, best person to listen to your problems is a bartender - far cheaper and they listen long as you pay em.

I'm going to call TNdep this afternoon, and I don't want to sound preachy at all. My wife and I were really struggling a few years back. Classic everything that all of us go through. We read this book and it has been a gem for me more then anything. I realized that no matter how hard I worked, how stable the income, etc that didn't 'speak' to her. For everything I've ever done when I do the dishes, take out the trash, get the girls to bed...that is her 'love language.' She's happy, forgiving, etc. I buy her something nice, complete whatever with her. And all women are different. The author boils it down to 5 potential categories. Find the one your women is in, speak that language and presto!

Women are crazy to understand. This book goes a long way to solving the mystery. I have 6 older sisters and you would think after all the women in my life I would have had a clue but didn't. Really worth the read.

I'll be quiet now.

Boo

[Butcher]

I'm going to call TNdep this afternoon, and I don't want to sound preachy at all. My wife and I were really struggling a few years back. Classic everything that all of us go through. We read this book and it has been a gem for me more then anything. I realized that no matter how hard I worked, how stable the income, etc that didn't 'speak' to her. For everything I've ever done when I do the dishes, take out the trash, get the girls to bed...that is her 'love language.' She's happy, forgiving, etc. I buy her something nice, complete whatever with her. And all women are different. The author boils it down to 5 potential categories. Find the one your women is in, speak that language and presto!

Women are crazy to understand. This book goes a long way to solving the mystery. I have 6 older sisters and you would think after all the women in my life I would have had a clue but didn't. Really worth the read.

I'll be quiet now.

Boo

Already been through it once, what started 50/50 went to 100/0 - I'm lucky I walked when I did and ill leave it at that, my ex was a diabetic type 2 - did it matter? nope - I couldn't stand to see her go paula dean on herself. Hospital trips? once in three months usually due to overwhelming high blood sugar. I don't have diabetes, but I changed my diet around, tried to change living arrangements, but I couldn't put up with it anymore.

I stopped trying to figure things out and just let them work out or let them fail, frankly I work to much to bother giving a crap anymore.

[perdue3]

Im trying to figure out how people can allow a GAME to come in between family.

Agreed.

[RedBull1]

I may be next TnDep, in the sense of leaving the game at least, my account ran out about a week or so ago, and since I was disqualified from BadlEagl's bracket (because I couldn't renew it at the time due to financial reasons) I have had no urge what so ever to play Aces High, maybe it's just a break, maybe Ill come back, I don't know right now.     Anyway,  everyone keep killing 

[DrBone1]

  Dont hide it Red we are simply migrating to WoT. 

[JOACH1M]

Dont hide it Red we are simply migrating to WoT. 

Ya ya...

[mthrockmor]

Dont hide it Red we are simply migrating to WoT. 

Don't you mean that new Russian game World of Planes or something? Sheesh! This is all just shocking...

Boo

[Daddkev]

  Bye Dep. 

[DrBone1]

Don't you mean that new Russian game World of Planes or something? Sheesh! This is all just shocking...

Boo

If only AH had the Graphics of these new Games easily could populate 10-20k ppl playing online at once,
I see every night around 11-1 AM 15-20k diff ppl playing WoT Just amazing.

I apologize for Hijacking this thread Dep!  

Not to recall AH dont have half of the tanks in WoT.

M4 in WoT compared to AH M4,WoT M4 Owns!