DA lake is a joke.
As for the OP, I play for the fight, regardless of the outcome. But like most guys, if I'm picked, HOed (if I survive, bet your bottom dollar you're gonna die the next merge), or ran away from, I get annoyed. Sometimes I'll flip out after a string of these annoyances, but then I'll quit to cool off and play some other game.
I don't mind getting shot down, as long as it was a fun and/or fair fight. Only thing I don't get are runners, it's a combat game...If you're out of ammo or have no fuel, put it out on 200 and 99% of the time, I'll peel off. If you're damaged and I feel nice, sure, I'll let you go, best of luck on making it back to base.