A good bomber pilot is....
Patience
Understanding of the mission
Support of his squaddies
and the the will to go home
Pretty good short version, 4440, but let me expand that a bit...
Lots of patience, and passion, because, truth be known, it is pretty boring flying for an hour or more, dropping your bombs, and turning around and going home. If you run into an enemy fully prepared to defeat you, you fight them until you die and then willingly jump in someone else's plane as a gunner to try to help them survive, and just ride the rest of the mission. The mission, and it's success, is why you are here. Not for the score, the points, the glory or anything else. There is no glory in being a bomber pilot. It is work, plain and simple, and lots of it. IF you want glory, do not ever fly a bomber. If you want satisfaction from a job well done, thumb your nose at the fighter rides and be among the first to WANT to fly a bomber. Do we have favorites? Sure, but at the end of the mission, any bomber is still a bomber.
A full understanding of the mission, with all of the nuances accounted for, is indispensable.
Have you got the route down? IS time a factor? Do you have a back up plan for various inconsistencies in the original plan? Have you considered the wind factor? Are there enough of you to complete the mission, or are you just hoping for the best? Are you willing to fly the mission multiple times off line, or in practice, to make sure you have everything right in your head? Are you willing to help those you are flying with who may not know bombers? Encouragement is as important as knowledge.
Support of squaddies. Yes! I have touched on this already several times, but you have to have it in your mind that even if you are not going to make it home, if there is something you can do to help a squadmate make it, you must give your all to see that happen.
Sometimes the will to make it home and land is all you have. You may be the last guy up from your group. You may be almost out of fuel, shot up, thinking "This is nuts. I am not going to make it. If I auger now, I can (insert something you may want to do here). NO NO NO. That is wrong. you fight for every inch of altitude you can keep, you fight for every mile you can make with those last few gallons of fuel, you do your absolute best to get that plane back to the designated landing field. You NEVER give up, and you never whine!
And THAT, in my opinion, is what makes a good bomber pilot.
I am not comfortable being in command, but I am pretty good at flight lead, and will be there, unless "Honey" has other ideas. This time of year, I seem to have lots of weekend honey do's.