The average Kansan may be scared of you.
we moved out to live with a old school friend of the wife's, come to find out she had a 20 year obsession with my wife, she tried to steel my wife and family from me.....
ended up being a very bad situation, she kept my kids from me one day, instead of kicking her door in,(which I have been known to do) I did the one thing I never did before, and called the cops, she tried to convince the cops I abused my kids, and they were in fear of their life, tried to tell my kids I had no right to tell them what they could do, she tried to brainwash them....she is extremely lucky the cops were smart, and saw the truth of the matter...even after all that happened she still moved right next door to us and kept trying to see my wife...we were broke, we knew no one, I had no way of making money out there, we had no way to leave, so some friends and family put together money drove out and got us back home.
very messed up situation....just one of many in a long life of struggle....we got through it and I would like to think we are stronger for it.