Does it ...? Did I say it wasn't ? If you mean - am I personally willing to accept damage under the collision model I propose ? Sure.

I said exactly what I meant to say. If you understand how collisions work, then the answer should have been very simple.
You are proposing to have the game damage your plane, when you avoid a collision, if the other player does not avoid a collision. You propose to give another player control over whether or not you have a collision and take that control from you.
You have backed that up by stating you would not mind your plane being damaged, even when you avoid the collision, if another player does not avoid the collision. You have further stated most players would prefer it that way. I have not heard anyone who would prefer their plane be damaged when they avoid a collision, regardless of what the other player does or does not do, except for you.
You point at a factual representation of exactly how and why collisions currently work and claim it as being a "precovcieved concept". This does not illicit confidence in your understanding of how the collision system works.
Everything you have stated is predicated on a complete understanding of the current collision system, yet you refuse to answer any questions about that.