Let's be very clear. I have an equal disdain for ANY GUI. Even UNIX based ones.
It has nothing to with what I am used to. I have used Apple computers quite a bit in my career. Always thought the way they did things was screwy. I think Microsoft does screwy things too. I think X Windows is also a bit weird.
Eject buttons come with ROM devices which is why everyone is used to the eject button being near the door. It has nothing to do with the OS or Apple or Microsoft. Apple is the only one who decided not to put an eject button near the door. So much for intuitive.
the final and ridiculously obvious way is to drag the cd image to the trashcan which causes the cd to eject.
Oh yeah, everyone is born knowing that. By the way, you notice most of the methods rely on an ICON. What happens when there is no ICON?
Reminds me of the time Apple had to place an engineer in my office to keep an Apple computer running while I worked on a driver. On more than one occasion the power button stopped working. Because, as we all know, the power button is not a mechanical device on an Apple computer. It is a software device. Works fine until it does not. The engineer had to take the computer back to Apple on several occasions due to the power button not working any longer because of some corruption in the ROM.
Little things like that make an Apple special. It does not make them intuitive/instinctive. How is anyone born with an innate knowledge of how Apple decides things should be done?
One day my Wife and I were out and about and she asked me to call her Mom as she was making some notes for work. I did not have my cheap little flip phone with me, so she gave me her Samsung Galaxy. I looked at it and turned to her and went, "How do you make a phone call?"
She looks at me and very frustratingly states, "What do you mean?" I turned the phone to her and pointed at it and asked, "How do you make a phone call with this?" She gave up, took it away from me, did some kind of finger exercises on the screen and made the call. Even after watching her, there is no way I could ever make a phone call with that phone. Yet, people say it is intuitive. They say the same thing about the iPhone.
I really think people do not know what the word, "intuitive", means. Personally, I have an aversion to any type of GUI. They get in my way and I really do not like them. My way of thinking is, if you are going to learn to use a computer, then learn to use the computer and not some awkward GUI.
That said, I did write a text/ASCII based context sensitive interface for users to use who did not want to learn how to use a computer. It was UNIX based and did not require a mouse. Single keystrokes opened files, started applications or both. My thought was if your using a word processor, then why should you take your hands off the keyboard. Everything was tightly integrated, easy to use, and easy to administrate. It was very popular. My Wife still uses it.
So when you start telling me I do not like something because I am not used to it, I have to giggle a bit. On the other hand, you have to make some type of rationalization in order to support your arguments and I guess that is as good as any, even if there is no basis in truth.
My opinion of Apple, or Microsoft, or UNIX OS's is not based on ignorance. It is based on actual usage of all those OS's. You argue Apple's way is intuitive. I argue there is no such thing as anyone being born with a instinctive understanding of how any GUI works. Show me the DNA evidence to prove me wrong.