George, come fly with us. I am 57 years old and been playing since AirWarrior myself. Not only am I patient, but my squadmates are also. We help each other all the time.
There are certainly other good squads that can help you too. I just know how much fun VMF-222 is. We have zero internal strife. None. I personaly fly alot. My wingman, Wiley flys alot too. We got a couple guys that do GV's and can help ya there. We got Twisted, who helps us all with our bombing. FSO nights there are 10 to 12 of us on. If you cannot do all the FSO's thats cool too. If ya can even now and then, it will be fun for you too. I will be looking forward to meeting you sir.