There are squads that focus on ground vehicles, Navy birds, German Iron, etc. One has a few members that like to drink tea and fly mostly Spits. There are also some great bomber squads, 91st seems to be the standard bearer there.
Sort out what your style is, then look at those squads that suit your flavor. On the main page on the tab for "community" when the drop down box comes up you joined "forum" to post your question. Go down a few more spots and you'll see "squads." Go to that page and sort around. You can see see who they are, members, etc. Some of them have great home pages linked there.
I would go shopping, find half a dozen that look interesting then put in the research, fly some hops with them, etc. Ask around, people are happy to talk smack about how bad squads are though plenty of strong leaders who will give you great assessments of squads. My first answer about great squads, some have lots of trash thrown at them though there isn't a bad squad in the game. A few much stronger then most, maybe 10 or so really reside at the top of the heap.
To borrow the motto of a public charter school that operates over 100 schools nationwide, with some of the best results around. It fits here:
"Work hard, play nice"
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