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Offline Fud

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Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« on: June 24, 2012, 07:50:11 AM »
I want to share a story about fud jr.
 About 5 years ago, my wife and I decided to adopt a child from foster care. We met this young boy just shy of his 3rd birthday. He was born 6 weeks premature and tested positive to cocaine in his system. His birth parents were drug addicts and parental rights were given up at birth.
 When we met him, he only had a few words to his vocabulary, since he has moderate to severe hearing loss in both ears and the foster mom who raised him to that point never followed up with any medical care such as hearing aids etc.
 There was also substantiated abuse in foster care. He had chipped front teeth and a scar over his eye.
Once we became legal guardians, we had him fitted with hearing aids and tested in the sound booth. The audiologist whispered his name and he looked at the speaker and heard his name for the first time. He never really smiled. He kept his upper lip down to cover his chipped teeth We had new crowns put in and once he got used to that he beamed.
  We enrolled him in a preschool for the hard of hearing and total communication. (HH/TC) to learn sign language and language skills.
Now at 8 years old, you would never know he had 2 words in his vocabulary and he's a normal kid who loves reading, math, playing and nearly fluent in ASL.
 He made honor roll with a letter from the state capitol congratulating him. We also received a letter from his school administration the other day and he qualifies for Gifted Services.
We live near NASA/Langley and when we drive by and he sees the wind tunnel, he says he wants to Virginia plane doctor (AKA Aerospace engineer)

K. I'm stepping off my soap box...
Thanks for reading <S> fudmukkr
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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #1 on: June 24, 2012, 08:00:03 AM »
I always knew you were a good man Fud, despite your preference for that hideous gas-guzzling 4hog  :lol 

 :salute to you and your wife.


And to Fud junior:

 :salute to you young man, you become that plane Doctor and keep swinging  :aok
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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #2 on: June 24, 2012, 08:24:29 AM »
WOOOOOOOOT! Fud Jr!!!!  Congratulations! You just keep goin the opposite direction from Dad, and you'll do well......hehehehe! Fud's a great guy, wish I could be more like him.
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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #3 on: June 24, 2012, 09:18:55 AM »
Way to go Fud Jr, keep working hard, maybe some day i can come and work for you  :aok

Your a good man Fud  :aok
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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #4 on: June 24, 2012, 09:34:58 AM »
Good on you, Mr., Mrs. and Master fud. I wish you all the best of health and continued good fortune.

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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #5 on: June 24, 2012, 10:22:45 AM »
Nicely done Fud dood :)
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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #6 on: June 24, 2012, 10:59:05 AM »
Don't buy into it guys! fud is a bad, bad man! He used to beat me up every day in his 4Hog when I flew DA!!!
 :P <S> fuddy awesome man, really can't wait til youre back in game shooting me down  :aok
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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #7 on: June 24, 2012, 01:07:59 PM »
 :salute give yourself and your wife a pat on the back for a job well done and tell Fud Jr your friends on Aces High are very very proud of him. 
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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #8 on: June 24, 2012, 01:35:46 PM »
  Great stuff Fud! :aok

 Stories like this help to restore my faith in humanity.



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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #9 on: June 24, 2012, 01:54:30 PM »
Awesome....  Absolutely.... :aok
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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #10 on: June 24, 2012, 03:00:20 PM »
A great story about environment and a child.
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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #11 on: June 24, 2012, 09:21:52 PM »
WTG Fud and Fud Jr.   :salute
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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #12 on: June 24, 2012, 09:48:33 PM »
I honestly hope that I will have as positive an impact on a child as you have someday.

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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #13 on: June 25, 2012, 12:25:09 AM »
Outstanding Fud and Mrs. Fud!  Best wishes to Fud Jr.!

Another example of why this community is the best there is. 

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Re: Getting on my soap box for a moment...
« Reply #14 on: June 25, 2012, 11:02:00 AM »
WTG Fud!!  :salute to all parents of challenged children.  :salute
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