Relying on a wingman is, I think, an easier way out. I intend to do this on my own with the occasional help from nearby friendlies. Others have, I intend to figure it out. Thank you though.
Then you're doing it wrong. Flying with a wingman requires a totally different set of skills, and those skills only improve your overall capabilities. I have no doubt that Fester wouldn't be what he is today without having winged with Kappa (and others) for years, and I would be half the pilot I was without the experience and enjoyment of winging with folks like Kitty, NathBDP, and Drex.
The best part is that you and your wingman can beat the crap out of each other 1v1 in the dueling arena, then you head to the MA and destroy legions of enemies together.