Ya know, back in my teenager years when I first started playing this game, and there was practically no filter between my mind and my mouth/keyboard, I was constantly muted or chat suspended at least once a month. There comes a time when you finally have to grow up and learn to use that filter between your mind and mouth, or create one if you lack it. For me, this came from taking about a year break from the game. Since then, I don't think I've been muted, chat suspended, or even warned in the last few years. Taking a break really helps, if it doesn't, then the problem lies within yourself. Once you defeat that "paranoia" that someone is out to get you and only mutes you, the game becomes much more enjoyable. Of course, detuning 200 and squelching might help your situation, but it proves that you lack self control.
That's just my two cents.
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Josh