Honestly, Fugi's got the right of it. There is no magic 'If he goes like this, you go like this, and you'll be able to fly like Lepape.' It's a set of skills that you have to put the time in to learn.
Learn ACM. Heh... I just realized that's pretty much akin to saying 'Learn chess' but it's what's required. In Pursuit by Johan Kylander is a good place to start. Putting in time in the TA with trainers can help immensely.
Pick a plane. Learn the plane so you know what it will do in every situation. Low speed, mid speed, high speed, extreme speed. Learn how it feels and handles when it starts to compress, what it takes to get it to shed parts due to speed.
Get the feel for how it stalls, when it stalls, what it does after it stalls. Learn how different levels of throttle affect its low speed characteristics.
Learn how different fuel/ammo states affect it under all the aforementioned conditions.
That's a start, anyways.
Edit: Wow, I just reread this and realized it comes off a bit harsh. I didn't mean any offense by it, Zacherof, it's just a factual statement of what I feel it takes to get to the point of fancy tricks.
Wiley.