Bender.
Nice post sir, well thought out and respectful. I feel ya buddy. I too like it the most when sides are relatively even.
For awhile, I hopped from one chess piece to another because if I have a choice I would rather be on the outnumbered side. I settled with Knights and hardly switch anymore. If I do switch, it's to fly with friends. I ended up with Knights because after paying attention I noticed that the hours I fly, Knights are outnumbered most of the time.
Still, sometimes, I am flying against odds that are difficult to manage, or with odds that is difficult to find a fight that isn't me joining in a gangbang.
If I had the option of flying against 2 to 1 odds or with, I would certainly choose against. When overwhelming odds do occur , then I study the map a bit closer. Most of the time there is always a bit of space that will appeal to me and I'll go there. I am however, infinitely patient and don't mind just flying around sometimes waiting for reasonable situations to develop. With practice and study I think you may find that you can anticipate these type of interactions and be in the right place at the right time.
You were mostly lamenting upon being outnumbered, do what I do it it helps, climb higher.........
