a bit of ink

[Fish42]

the whole life has been a wild ride....time for some smooth sailing



 

thanx guys

Its the rough stuff that makes you appreciate the smooth sailing more. Glad it got back on track for you.

[ink]

great day so far, asked her to renew our vows...she said yes.

there are no appropriate emoticons on how I feel....yet even now the negative thoughts are attacking.


<S> guys

Thanx

[AAJagerX]

There ya go buddy!  Glad to hear you two are working stuff out.   

[Butcher]

was fun seeing Ink on facebook drunk to boot, terrible situation though man - ya live life and learn.

[Stampf]

great day so far, asked her to renew our vows...she said yes.

there are no appropriate emoticons on how I feel....yet even now the negative thoughts are attacking.


<S> guys

Thanx

Call me bro...I am a sponge for negativity tonight...

[ink]

was fun seeing Ink on facebook drunk to boot, terrible situation though man - ya live life and learn.

man I was hammered..... been like 18 years....I am proud of my self...nothing got broke

Call me bro...I am a sponge for negativity tonight...

I am putting all my effort into getting rid of them....my ignoring them....ive never done that before....

I have also decided, I am gonna open a church somewhere in NH.....it is called "The Church of YAH"  you wont see any crosses or anything that is pagan...... a stone building nothing fancy worship/teaching will be held on Saturday's and no plate will be going around....but you can most certainly bring your own bud.

[Slate]

    My Neice was having trouble with her relationship with her Husband and 2 kids. She was always out with the girls and didn't want to be home, she wanted to be single again.
    Well the last 3 weeks she was in the hospital and her heart stopped several times and she was near death at 27 years old. (She had a pacemaker that was put in when she was young) She survived somehow and is now home and tearfully happy she has her family again.
    Funny how we can be shocked back into reality.

   Perhaps this is what you both needed now to see what's really important. Not all the BS of life but the goodness and beauty of life.
  Emotions are the mind killer and if i was not in control of mine I would not be married now. 
           

   

[BluBerry]

I'm happy things are looking up for you. 

[Lab Rat 3947]

Would you and I with Fate conspire
to grasp this sorry Scheme of Things entire
would we not shatter it to bits
and remold it nearer to the heart's desire

The Rubiyat of Omar Khayam


I wish both you all the best on the rest of journey through life


LtngRydr

[ink]

    My Neice was having trouble with her relationship with her Husband and 2 kids. She was always out with the girls and didn't want to be home, she wanted to be single again.
    Well the last 3 weeks she was in the hospital and her heart stopped several times and she was near death at 27 years old. (She had a pacemaker that was put in when she was young) She survived somehow and is now home and tearfully happy she has her family again.
    Funny how we can be shocked back into reality.

   Perhaps this is what you both needed now to see what's really important. Not all the BS of life but the goodness and beauty of life.
  Emotions are the mind killer and if i was not in control of mine I would not be married now. 
           

   

 

Would you and I with Fate conspire
to grasp this sorry Scheme of Things entire
would we not shatter it to bits
and remold it nearer to the heart's desire

The Rubiyat of Omar Khayam


I wish both you all the best on the rest of journey through life


LtngRydr

fitting poem
 

Thanx Bluberry

[Shuffler]

Ink I have not been coming on the boards a lot lately. I'm sorry to hear of the split.

I hope things will be looking up for you and you get to visit the kids a lot.

[mthrockmor]

A great book that helped my marriage is "The Five Love Languages." It is less about mushy love and more about communication and understanding what speaks to your other half.

As an example, my wife's love language is service. If I buy her gifts, take her on trips, compliment her, etc she is whatever. If I do the dishes, laundry, get the girls to bed, etc she hears a different statement. It means more to her than anything. Some people need to have words of affirmation, or compliments and all the nice gestures, etc mean nothing. There are five such ways to communicate with people.

I would suggest getting a copy for $15 and reading it with her. Women are a mystery in general. This book really helped!

Boo

[Shuffler]

A great book that helped my marriage is "The Five Love Languages." It is less about mushy love and more about communication and understanding what speaks to your other half.

As an example, my wife's love language is service. If I buy her gifts, take her on trips, compliment her, etc she is whatever. If I do the dishes, laundry, get the girls to bed, etc she hears a different statement. It means more to her than anything. Some people need to have words of affirmation, or compliments and all the nice gestures, etc mean nothing. There are five such ways to communicate with people.

I would suggest getting a copy for $15 and reading it with her. Women are a mystery in general. This book really helped!

Boo

It is strange how we people are like animals. We all need something different. The job is to figure out what. There is not necessarily a right or wrong.

[ink]

Shuff....my wife and I are workin on it....I am truly blessed to have this woman.

A great book that helped my marriage is "The Five Love Languages." It is less about mushy love and more about communication and understanding what speaks to your other half.

As an example, my wife's love language is service. If I buy her gifts, take her on trips, compliment her, etc she is whatever. If I do the dishes, laundry, get the girls to bed, etc she hears a different statement. It means more to her than anything. Some people need to have words of affirmation, or compliments and all the nice gestures, etc mean nothing. There are five such ways to communicate with people.

I would suggest getting a copy for $15 and reading it with her. Women are a mystery in general. This book really helped!

Boo

sounds interesting....Stacey needs the love...the emotion...being heard....ive done that, but also....not enough.

something I cant forget again

[zack1234]

I love you Ink only in a manly way

I have a cure for negative thoughts its called "Lego"

Play-doe is also good, i like the smell to be honest