Do not run.Face your opponent with all you have.If you die you have something to learn.
One thing to add to realism that would be cool, would be a takeoff flare on heavy bomber missions. http://www.flickr.com/photos/8648827@N06/5102297492/ Maybe something like that... but visible during daylight.
I just came up with the perfect add on to your idea.Any time someone comes in for a wheels up landing, a flare goes up and an auto vox message says, "You can teach monkeys to fly better than that."