You should consider using differential spoilers (also called spoilerons) or split ailerons (although these would be much more complicated to produce and control). Differential spoilers induce roll by reducing lift on one wing and, by their fundamental nature, they also create profile drag and proverse yaw (yaw into the turn as opposed to adverse yaw which is against the turn). The proverse yaw also leverages dihedral effect for roll without having to use a rudder to induce the yaw. You will still see changes in the lift vectors for each wing because you can't change the fact that they will have different local AOA in a roll but since the natural action is proverse, spoilers would help manage the problem. Spoilers do have a downside for gliders though in that they act by creating drag and killing lift on one wing without creating lift on the other wing. Also, because they just act on one wing, your potential roll rate may be lower (probably not an issue with a glider). Just some trade-offs to consider.
BTW, it would be nice to see your design.
This is right about where I've settled too. I've made a few test models with different wind and tail configurations, and have made some progress on full-scale drawings, but haven't begun building the final product yet. Hopefully this winter...
At this point my intention is to build the "fuselage" with the ability to remove the tail and replace it with a different "flavor" or two. The wings will also be removable, so that opens up the option to build different wings with different control surfaces as well.
I have the benefit of having access to "living models" and a photo-bug wife who can snap specific photos of a "to-order" basis, so that helps. This makes it easy to get nice 3-views of my desired flight configuration, as well as set up opportunities for the birds to show the slight wing/tail changes they use to initiate turns.
My goal is to have a model that I can use for soaring (thermal and slope). The slope option makes for easy launching, but I don't always have access to nearby slopes with favorable winds. The thermal option is much easier for me day-to-day, but raises some concerns on launch (hi-start or winch) without a vertical stabilizer/rudder configuration of some sort. Aileron-only control on a winch launch can be kind of sketchy. I'm considering a launch "pod" with a rudder that would drop away as the winch line is released? Not sure yet.
I have a few workable tail configurations; one option is more-or-less flat, but functioning as a type of v-tail (via angled hinge-lines) giving me a mix of rudder and elevator effect coupled with a computer radio. Another option is a mostly flat tail that I can articulate up/down, left/right, and also rotate while making those other movements. It's a challenge, but I've figured out (I think, lol) a ball-hinge coupling that will allow that.
A separate (but less appealing so far) idea is a mostly or completely stationary/static tail with some variety of pitcheron wings. I'm less convinced this will work sans rudder/vertical stabilizer...
As far as the wings go, I'm definitely looking at inducing roll by reducing lift on one wing.
One of the challenges I'm pursuing though is to remain as true as possible to "realistic" movement in regards to control surfaces. I've looked at the F14 differential spoilers, and that would work apart from them being so completely "wrong" when it comes to realism... Right now I'm strongly considering making the outboard sections of the wing (outer 1/2 of each wing) basically a giant aileron, or full-flying surface. In general, I'm looking to reduce the lift on one wing while leaving the other wing neutral, similar to what my friends eagle is doing below... If you look at where the arrows are pointing you'll see that the right outer "panel" is deflected upwards while the left is slightly down or close to neutral. I'm not sure of the exact degree yet, but I'm anticipating doing this by programming the differential on my radio.

One concern I have is that by reducing lift on one wing, I'll also induce reduced drag on that same wing, and end up with some variety of induced yaw... I'm considering using the inboard panels as "flaps" to induce drag on the side with reduced lift? Essentially, the right aileron going up would be balanced by the right flap going down. And again, I might make the flap extremely large in cord? Another option would be to place spoilers where the median or greater secondary coverts lie, as on my birds it's common to see these feathers raise up as drag increases. This would serve to create extra drag on the wing I want to drop.
As you can see in the photo below (one of my redtails) the bird is initiating a bit of a left turn correction (probably due to a bit of crosswind). She has her tail deflected for a left bank, has the trailing edges of her left wing lowered to create drag, and her left wing is "pulled in" (reducing her span) to reduce lift. The outer section of her left wing is also at a reduced AOA (very similar to what the eagle is doing in the photo above). I can't do
all of that, of course, but the goal is to get as close as possible...

I've built some hand-toss models with various hinged wing and tail configurations and have been able to get the models stable, predictable, and adjustable in pitch and roll. Essentially, adjusting the model for a roll will cause the model to spiral in, but I can see that I've achieved the desired result... I can also get the models to nose down so hard they "tuck", or nose up to the edge of stall where they just wallow and settle.
I've also played with adding some weight to one wing, which causes a steady bank and curving flight path. With the weighted wing, I'm able to adjust the control surfaces on the opposite wing to get the model to glide straight or even bank/curve away from the weighted wing. Promising, so far...