I spent almost 3 years onboard the USS Eisenhower CVN69 out of Norfolk. Recovery and launch were always done with the ship as steady as possible facing into the wind. Of course the planes we were launching and recovering are just a bit heavier and have a bit less wing to them. Landing speeds were in the 200 mph area and every little bit of wind you could add coming over the bow helped.
Also remember the newer CVs have an off center landing zone. So the planes have to come in from starboard to port while the sea is bouncing the nose up and down and the ship is rolling left to right. For the most part they didn't run ops in a really bad weather, but I have see some of those big rolls while we had planes aboard. But to roll it that hard on purpose while loaded no.
In the game a turning CV adds a bit of a challenge, and that is where the problems come in. Far too many players are looking for that "quick" path to winning the game. None are willing to take the time to practice and learn these skills. It's much easier for them to just complain about it.