Thank you for the reply.
I get the message after the MA tries to load. I log in fine, can select the other arenas and get them to load, can chat in the DA, but when i tried to load the MA it would go thru its sequence, load everything then as soon as the screen turned to the command hut the msg was waiting for me, i could even see a few line of types, but could not type back, or load anything off the clipboard, i had to hit "ok" and it exited the program.
This sounds like a resource issue, or possibly an anti-xxxx program interfering with the game. Resource is easy.
In "Video Settings"
Try setting the "Maximum Texture Size" to 256.
Set anti-aliasing to 0 (disable it)
In the game under Options->Graphic Detail, check all the options which contain the word "Disable".
In the Options->Graphic Detail->Advanced panel, UNcheck all the options, EXCEPT "Detailed Water".
Now test your connection to the "Main Arena". By the way, the game will look pretty bad with that set of options.
If you get in fine, then your computer has some resources issues which is causing it to take to long for the main arena to load. Post a DXDIAG output and let's see if we can figure out the best set of options to run with.
An anti-xxxx program WILL slow the load of resources, significantly. If you are running Norton or McAfee, then you are not going to be able to stop them from slowing the loads of the game data.