do you have the ram installed in the right slots? some mobo's are picky and will only boot the first time with 1 set that is in the correct slots. I have an asus and that's how it worked the first time.
also for some reason, sometimes you have to have the matching ram in the correct slots, that's how it is on mine. I have 2 matching sets of 4 gigs. if I mix them, my mobo wont boot up.
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