There are some aspects of Aces High that annoy me and have annoyed me for years. These are very minor things, pet peeves, if you will...
When I started play, in tour twenty-something, I had no understanding of the game's prevailing culture. None. Thus, I drew the ire of some players. After about a week, I went to the dueling arena. I was asked if I wanted to duel. "Sure", I said. The other picked the fields and I took off and headed towards the opposite base. I had no idea of the accepted rules. When I spotted the other guy, I saw him dive for the ground. I did the same. As we came to the merge, he was going to pass on my left side. So, just as we met, I turned hard left and opened fire. He flew right through the tracer stream and blew up. The next thing I know, the text buffer explodes with indignation. I didn't realize that it was guns cold on the merge. I saw him and shot him down. The second fight, I climbed to 10k, the other guy was far below when I spotted him. I ended up shooting him down again. Once again, the text buffer is filled with acrimony. I didn't know there was a hard ceiling....
HOs in the MA, shooting guys on the runway... It seemed that whatever I did, someone was really pissed.
I simply was ignorant of the culture and the unwritten etiquette of the game. I have a pretty thick skin, so I wasn't bothered by the raging and nasty PMs. Gradually, I learned the culture. It took a lot longer than two weeks. So, not only do you have to learn ACM, gunnery and the intricacies of the game, one has to learn the culture. I must have seen a dozen replies to questions of "Alt-F4". These guys think that they're funny, but we all know that they're schmucks.
Years later, I was asked to be a trainer. I did that for several years. The one thing I tried to teach new guys, was the culture as well as the basic and advanced knowledge of the game mechanics, BFM and ACM. As a trainer, I saw new guys every week. Most were great folks. Some where already buttheads, ignoring the TA rules, or convinced that their $14.95 bought them the right to be jerks. In the TA, we would just boot them out of the arena. I think that most subscribers recognize that the game culture needs to change some. It is best changed from within. As long as bad behavior is tolerated by the player community, change will not manifest itself. We, the players, have no small amount of responsibility in that regard. We should be policing ourselves more.
Back when I started, 200 players on at prime time was the norm. Game population grows and shrinks due to several factors. The economy is the biggest factor. Staleness of the game is another. HTC is heavily engaged in overcoming that last one now. However, that takes time and countless hour of labor.
Not long after I started playing, I joined a squad and remained with them to it fell apart over internal politics and demands to play on nights when my schedule simply didn't allow it. We formed a new squad. That one lasted about a year. Since then, I have played lone wolf. No squadies, no wing man. I'm not a joiner. Not a follower, and not interested in herding cats, which is what squad leader must do.
There are things I would change about the game. But, I'm just one voice and I don't expect all to agree with me. I have little tolerance for rude players, and I'm not shy about dealing with them. The majority are not rude, but like any community, there are a percentage of jerks. Most players know them.
As to complexity... The learning curve is steep. That's both bad and good. Bad because new players will struggle a bit. Good because many of us prefer realism over fluff.
Fork2, most of us welcome honest criticism about the game. Some get a bit defensive for their hobby. A few are simply mean-spirited. Unfortunately, that last group garners much of the attention. There's a business concept of "continuous improvement". This means improving the product every day, usually in small increments. HTC does that. We only see the improvements when an update is released. The update is a cumulative thing, consisting of all the improvements HTC has incorporated.
Anyway, it's always a pleasure to greet new players. Don't hesitate to PM me if you have a need for help with any aspect of Aces High. Even us retired trainers are happy to set aside some time for the new guys.