Hello everyone,
First, thank you all for your posts. Mrs. bustr enjoyed reading all of your very kind posts. It helped her as much as it gave me a new appreciation for our community. Our wives go through just as much during these times as we do. In some ways it's easier to lay in the bed and be taken care of. So thank you all, it helped both of us.
Unlike our fantasy's about sponge baths, they sent two guys to give me mine. What a downer.....

I'm now on very light duty. I can only lift my mouse and bang the keyboard gently.

Gives new meaning to counting to 10 before reacting to anything. Right now giving a darned about the wrong thing can mean spending time again with those two "male" sponge bath attendants.
I hope none of you has to be as bull headed as I was, to learn, we are only playing a game with others, who have opinions just as valuable and just a silly as your own.
Thank you all for your kindness.
Mrs. bustr is giving me the hairy eyeball and threatening to pull the power cable on my PC if I don't get back in bed.
gonna borrow her laptop then...hehehehe.