An anecdote from my early AH days that taught me a lot about these kind of things:
Enemy is attacking our field in force. We few defenders struggle to get to combat speed and altitude, but they will relentlessly swoop down on everyone daring to leave the boundaries of the field.
"Don't play their game!- Lame vulchers! - Stay in the ack! - Drag em to my Ostie! - That's why AH gameplay sucks so much these days"
20 minutes late the attackers ran out of steam, we got support, so that the situation ended up reversed. We were hoveing over their field, ready to bounce any poor souls daring to come up to meet us.
And I swear, the very same people now went:
"Pu$$ies! - Lame Ack huggers1 - Get out of your ack! - That's why AH gameplay sucks so much these days"
The most puzzling thing to me was that those guys were perfectly serious about what they said in both cases.