I'm glad to have posed a good question with a lot of interesting input
Skuzzy: Don't taz me, bro, I didn't have any control on their hacker talk

I've managed to kill my X-52 controller, so my game satisfaction will certainly rise some, once I can afford to replace that thing!
Another thing someone else mentioned really hit it on the head. The Forum / Community is what has really helped make the game what it is for many of us....kind of like an old friend. I know the O'Club is much different than it was 10 years ago, but despite the "colorful" threads of the past, many of us all got to know each other. Many of us killed many work hours chiming in on the forums. Then we spent our home time online, gaming away.
I have a lot of good memories here, although things seem like a shadow of their former self. I hope the upcoming game changes DOES draw in those old friends again. And some new players as well.
The learning curve is pretty steep and the comments on that are spot on. I know a couple pilot friends who won't play because it takes too long to get any good at it. I was surprised to hear that from airline pilots! So, its not just the new-to-flight-sims guys! We need to figure out a way to help even the real-life pilots up to speed!