Thanks for the kind words gents. Posted last night when everything was a blur. Things are settling down a bit now. My mother in law lives with us so she's surrounded by my wife, me and her grand kids so she will be ok. I didn't really know them well. To me they were the kind of relatives ( that many of us have) that you see at weddings and funerals, maybe run into them shopping and catch up chatting for a few minutes, but the grandmother that was killed was my wife's moms aunt and they were fairly close. The son that survived (Anthony) is doing better but doesn't know anything yet. The community is having a large get together tonight at a local church, and many have already started to ask what they can do to help with things.
Again thanks guys,
Matt