Yes, and I lose the wing and die while they fly away undamaged 
If you've got film of that, I'd love to see it, and I know HT has in the past made changes based on a collision film that showed something like that. I believe it was someone going head on in a deuce with a B17 (basically the worst case scenario for the collision model) showed something they fixed.
They're fairly adamant about the WYS(on your end)IWYG on the collisions.
If it said 'XYZ has collided with you.', you didn't get 'You have collided with XYZ.' and you took damage, far more likely to be gun damage just before they collided on their end that didn't give you a noticeable sound for whatever reason.
Wiley.