everyone needs somewhere to start, whether its the AVA, the FSO, the training arena, midwar, latewar etc etc. zoney's comment is quite interesting in the fact that when I first starting playing this game, I went into the latewar where all the planes were and got clobbered as soon as I upped a plane. I couldn't figure it out, so I quit playing for several months.
then I tried it again, and luckily ran into someone(Tbarone and storch) that was willing to teach me how to fly and play the game... that was 2008.... I'm still here today, but for that reason. so a new guy goes into the latewar and gets hammered leaves and never comes back based on his one or 2 or few experiences. that's a problem.
now the midwar has lesser numbers with guys willing to help others including new guys. they are better sticks cause they have better fights.
its not always about ho-ing or bomb and bail or anything else... although that too happens in the Midwar.
the point is the Midwar is a great place to start, and its a great place to fly. its not always what you want but, its like New England weather, wait awhile... it will change.
one bad experience today will not necessarily happen tomorrow. on the flip side of that, one great fight today, will not necessarily repeat itself tomorrow either.
every day is a new day. give things a try, try the midwar its not perfect but its fun... just like all the rest of the arena's. they're not perfect, but they're fun.