Hi Mike,
It seems to me that you are babying that hat switch... You need to wear it out

I don't know what you fly with for a joystick but if at all possible, you want to map a button on your throttle (or anywhere you can reach it without taking your thumb off the hat switch or trigger finger off the trigger) to the "UP" view so that you can press this and the hat switch and double your views. I have a CH set up and also have a button for "DOWN" but this is not as vital.
A common theme in the few fights here is that you lost sight of your opponent or had no idea what they were doing.
When you were on the attack in the first fight, the LA7 was below you doing something unknown - you didn't look for him. For all you know he chopped throttle and was climbing on your six.
With the dodger fight, at 3:45, you lose sight of him and never regain it. Try to forecast where he's going to be based on where he was headed when you last saw him (I think he was going to be in your UP six, showing the need for that view). You lost site and you lost the fight, he had reversed and was on you by the time you recovered visual, and that was only 7-8 seconds later.
In the last fight, you were doing some defensive maneuvers, but weren't even looking where your opponents were, so had you escaped, it would have been blind luck. How can you know when to scissor or dodge if you aren't looking at what they're doing?
I think you'll find that a lot of the more experienced sticks around here probably fly looking straight ahead the least while in combat. Their eyes always on the bad guys all around them instead.
There's other things like aim (not that I can really talk) and choice of maneuver but I think the fact that you just don't observe what is going on is going to get you killed more than anything else you're doing. That was what stuck out the most.
Luckily, that's an easy thing to fix!
<S>!
