Stealth aircraft need to be built with special materials that xxxxxx, shaping to help xxxx and xxxx, without xxxxx, and surface treatments that xxxx the xxxx to ensure xxxx while preventing xxxx and being easy to xxxxx. All of these need to be balanced because the overall design and individual design details must be tuned to xxxx, leading to compromises in both xxxx and xxxx. You can make a great all-around stealth shape with special materials, but it may not be flyable or useful due to payload, aero efficiency, and maintainability, and it still won't be perfectly "stealthy" against the entire EM, visual, or thermal spectrums. So they do their best to match the stealthy characteristics against known and predicted threats in order to be "good enough" to get to the target and back both now and in the future, also generally assuming some level of cooperative support from other assets and capabilities in really high-threat scenarios.
So... its complicated and there will always be one or more current or future threat systems that will defeat any particular aircraft. So what. There's always a threat we can't defeat. The question is if the weapon program will be good enough to fit within a system of systems to get the job done in scenarios we can anticipate, and hopefully have enough capability to be effective and survivable in those scenarios that surprise us. This aircraft is no different from any other aircraft in the past or in the future, so don't get caught up in the rabble rousing on either side just because they can blabber on about what if this one specific highly technical situation where....