Rendezvous was usually briefed for a particular location. Navigators did the best they could, but relative winds and obscuring clouds could have them miles off course. Even several hundred bombers can be impossible to see if you are not looking in the right location. Defending fighters could bounce the escorts before they get to rendezvous, also. Even just 300 bombers, and the stream could be as much as 1,000 bombers (I think Schweinfurt was a total of 1,070 sorties).
Still, it seems like the Cliff notes version of how it really was.