I have no need to prove anything to anyone and i find this Manly Men concept to be one of the stupidest things ever invented. The only thing it leads to is that it gets people killed, one way or another. I grew up with it, a real man where supposed to handle everything and any emotions was a sign of weakness. The result? an insane suicide rate. Because when manly men aren't allowed to talk about their feelings they struggle on until they cannot take it anymore, and then they take their rifle and blow their head off... (and trust me, you don't want to take care of a manly man that have taken it that far...)
So to be honest: it is just pathetic and stupid to talk about those day when "men where men".