I'm an A&P who works on Douglas DC-6 and Curtiss C-46 aircraft most of the time. I'll use the DC-6 as an example because it has a combination of wet wing and bladders.
The DC-6 has a combination of wet wing, and bladders in the wing. The main tanks are wet wing between the front and center spar, with bladders behind the center spar. The outboard alt tanks are the same, and the inboard alt tanks are all bladders. However some in our fleet we have deleted the alt tanks, and some we have even deleted the main tank bladders.
As far as wet wing vs bladders when it comes to maintenance, I'll take wet wing any day. When there are damaged stringers, or corrosion or popped rivets or anything that needs fixed in the wet wing, it's drain the tank open up a couple panels, ventilate for several hours, get in and fix what needs fixed. (you may need to scrape away some sealant depending on what needs fixed.)
With the bladders, it's drain the tank, open panels, remove the bladder cap panels (a PITA), ventilate for several hours, get in and disconnect all the bladder interconnect points(another PITA), unsnap and remove the bladder (being very careful not to crease or damage it) then you have a phenolic liner underneath the bladder that protects it from sharp edges on rivet shop heads and stringers that you have to un-tape the seams of, then unscrew and remove... then you are finally down to the structure where you can repair.
It takes probably 5-10 times as long to gain access for repairs when we have to pull a bladder vs. just the wet wing. As for leaks, the wet wing does tend to leak more. But with Avgas small leaks evaporate away so quick we don't even worry about them (just leaves a small blue stain) For bigger leaks that we do have to fix it is much easier to fix then with a leaky bladder. Just get in and reseal wherever it's leaking from, vs. tearing out bladders and replacing gaskets.
You asked about sealant. Wet wings (AVgas wet wings anyway) are sealed wherever there are rivets or bolts through the skin with PRC (commonly called Proseal) and then top-coated with a fuel resistant product called Scotchweld EC-776. Any rivets in the wet wing are shot "wet" (meaning coated in proseal before they are shot) to eliminate leaks.
Now the Curtiss is different altogether. It has actual aluminum tanks built inside the wings, and they are pretty much maintenance-free. For other repairs on the wings you just have to work around them. The downside is they do not fill all of the available space with fuel like with a wet wing.
I don't think a true wet wing has a bladder though does it?
This is correct. "Wet wing" refers to the fuel actually filling the structure of the wing, nothing but a skin panel between you and the fuel, vs having a bladder or welded tank or something else as the container inside the wing.